Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There’s no question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.
But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your girlfriend’s lost attraction for you. No, it wasn’t because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it’s “her, not you…”, it’s because the foundation of her attraction for you faded, and it’s your fault. Though there are ways you can “re-attract” your girlfriend (and I’ll get to that in a second), you have to first understand why she dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get her back.
This is what I like to call The Six Deadly Relationship Sins. Now, I’m not saying that you committed all of these mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced your girlfriend to leave you (even if she’s claimed that she left you for another reason).
deadly sin 1 – being too controlling
Women are repelled by men that put unrealistic restraints on their lives. Though asserting your dominance in a relationship is important, you have to know exactly when “enough is enough”. If you don’t, then don’t be surprised that your girlfriend or wife left you.
deadly sin 2 – seeking validation from your girlfriend
What does this mean? It means that you constantly seek your girlfriend’s approval. Asking questions like, “Do you love me? Do think I’m fit enough? Is my penis big enough for you? Did you have a good time?” repels women. It conveys that you aren’t confident or good enough… which reeks of insecurity.
deadly sin 3 – being jealous
Were you jealous that she was flirting with other guys? Maybe she was hanging out with a guy friend that you felt a little suspicious about… Well, if you did exhibit this emotion, then again, don’t be surprised if your girlfriend loses attraction for you. Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity.
how to get her back
So now that you know some of the ways you fucked up, should you try to undo the damage and get her back? Probably not, but you know your situation better than I do.
The key to winning her back is attraction, but how do you go about “re-attracting” your ex?
Well, it starts with employing some powerful psychological techniques. Yes, even if things seem completely hopeless right now, you can get her back if you know what you’re doing.
You see, what a lot of men do when they get dumped is start acting like complete bitches. They’ll start asking for forgiveness and begging for second chances. If you’re guilty of one of these mistakes, then you better watch the free informational video at the link below… because chances are you’re doing something right now that is pushing your ex girlfriend further and further away, and into the arms of another man.
Do yourself a favor and check out the free video below. In it, you’ll learn exactly how to get your ex girlfriend back as soon as possible… as well as the other deadly sins.
